Just Thinking

Well if you are looking for an update then go ahead and visit my "Myspace Blog." This entry is for my thoughts. I have realized something. Most couples are so used to things always being peachy in the beginning of thier relationship that when something does not go according to plan they fall apart. No Im not saying that rough times arent ahead but here just think about this. Rob & I have encountered great trials and tribulations. Jealous people that make it thier daily mission to break us apart, we have a baby, we are married and we are doing the long distance thing. We are planning a wedding, a future, and trying to get set up for the rest of our lives. Now things aren't always crimson & clovers but I think if we can get through the hardest of times the next 60 years is nothing. My grandparents have been married 61 years!!! I asked my grandmother how she did it. Her answer. It's not easy. It's a lot of work and an effort to see things through. Being so far away is really hard. Being faithful isn't hard at all. It's the fact that people around me take for granted what they have. In my mind & heart I know I have found the one man who I will grow old w/ and be happy. The hard part is not being able to share my days w/him. Everything reminds me of my husband. We have only shared 2 years together & I have incorporated him into every aspect of my life. When you are in love you can't imagine not having that person in your life, am I right or what? You're mind just draws a blank. I have one more year left in the Marines. I deal with the loneliness by keeping busy. People in the military are so quick to just give up. When did marriage become so casual. Is it just a piece of paper? It's not! Atleast not in my eyes. It wasn't too long after Rob & I started dating that I got pregnant. We didn't get married just because we were having a baby.  Everyone is different. I won't lie. I was nervous. I didnt want to be another military statistic. What Im trying to get at is that I am so happy to have found the man I want to grow old with. Someone to build and share a life with. My grandmother was right its not always easy but it is definitely worth it. Moral of the story is if you have found the ONE then keep them for forever and a day... Marry that person and let them know you love them so much. Does this make any sense?